Wednesday, October 29, 2014

NOT so squealishlygood: online dating sites

image via Google
 
I have been a reluctant participant in the online dating game, off and on, for a few years now.  As a stylist I work solo from my home studio which means I go a few days at a time without face to face human interaction.  No, I am not a hermit nor am I a former freak show performer.  I go for runs at the park with my dog, to the grocery store, etc., but during these outings I am not looking for some hot guy to trip while running or crash my shopping trolley into.  So there in lies the reason for online dating sites.
 
I have stories, a few stories, okay, quite a few stories, and it wasn't until my recent foray back in the world of cyber dating that I felt compelled to share.  In all fairness, the site I am currently a member of is "free", I refuse to pay to meet a guy, isn't that what mail order spouses are for?  Okay, not exactly, but you get my point.  I have in the past used paid sites with dismal results, so I'll do my best to weed through the dudes using the free sites as their little black book.
 
In the beginning, I felt like I should respond to every message I received, to be polite.  I thought it rude to just ignore, especially compliments, but now the delete button is my friend.  Last year I received a message from jumpsta77.  It started out with something like "hi, how are you?",  I responded with "great, and you?".  Even before responding, I knew I had no interest in meeting jumpsta, but I was being polite.  After more prattle, he asked if I'd like to meet for tea (strike 1- coffee/tea dates...another chapter) that afternoon, strike 2- do not ask a gal out for a date to happen that day.  I said no thank you and something along the lines that a future meeting would not be in the cards as well, he then berated me for leading him on.  I told him that I was raised to be polite. Then I received the following...
 
jumpsta: "Don't waste people's time. Some people are emailing people for a purpose.. Not to pass time"
 
me:  "Wow, thanks for the online dating lesson."
 
jumpsta:  "I mean really... What's the point of sitting back and just emailing?  It's pretty cowardly and a waste of your life" 
(not sure about the term cowardly, but he was correct about waste, that's why I delete)
 
 
I now state in my profile, "NOT into small talk/conversations through messaging, if you want to meet, let's meet."  I do still receive the oh so creative "Hi, how are you?"  On Sunday I received, "Hi, how's your day so far?"...at 7 p.m.
 
Admittedly, the delete button doesn't always work.  I received a message from a man 13 years my senior who lived 350 miles away, delete.  I heard back from him a few days later, "I was hoping to hear from you".  I responded with "Well, you are 13 years older and you live in Durango.  I do not live in Durango and I am not interested in dating a man 13 years older."  Of course he had to get the snarky last word in, "Thank you for your honesty, but just so you know, you probably couldn't keep up..."

I would love to hear from other's who have or are currently using an online dating site
 to share the good, the bad and the ugly.
 
Share in comments or send me an e-mail TCSTYLST1@GMAIL.COM
 
 

Tuesday, October 28, 2014

love it, live it: deco glam lounge inspired by fall, furnished by chairish

If you love amazing vintage furniture from any number of periods and styles; Hollywood Regency, Mid-Century Mod, Art Deco, Danish Modern, Asian, plus many, many more, you have to check out Chairish!  A squealishlygood site founded by a team of co-founders who were "passionate about connecting design lovers with each other in the best, most practical and enjoyable way to buy and sell amazing, unique, high quality home furnishings." 
 
Every piece of awesomeness on this Style Board is from Chairish. 

Saturday, October 25, 2014

Wednesday, October 15, 2014

love it, live it: sexy lounge

 
Inspired by the clean lines and just the right amount of shine, the Addison bookcase from West Elm is the perfect starting point for a sophisticated lounge.  Deep glossy walls, a little glitz, and lots of texture. 
 
Product sources available upon request TCSTYLIST1@GMAIL.COM

Tuesday, October 7, 2014

entry tables


 I see many houses in my line of work, and no matter the size, there is always a need for an entry table.  Mine, well, it isn't exactly an "entry table", more like an "entry box".  I acquired my entry table from Mom and PaPa, it is an old dynamite box.  It isn't big, but it is perfect for my space and serves it's purpose perfectly; holds my keys, daily shades, pens, lip balm and Porter's pals, treats and towels.  I perused a some of my favorite sites today and found a few options in varying styles and prices.
$199 CB2

 



$829 Horchow
 
 
 
 
 
 

 
$1,199 Horchow

 
$1,299 Horchow

$1,495 Jayson Home

$1,599 Horchow

$1,895 Jayson Home

$2,129 Horchow

 
$2,599 Horchow

$2,999 Horchow
 

And last, but most certainly not least, the sexiest entry table evah...
Hudson Furniture, price upon request